Executive Director and AHELP Co-founder

  • About Michelle Nichols, AHELP Project Founder

    Hello there, and thanks for stopping by. I am a Pet Parent like you. I get you.

    When my furry loved ones need me, I do my best to answer the call. I choose the healthiest foods, enjoy outings together, and get them “all the things” I can afford. I choose the best-fit veterinary care for us all, and when they are sick, I learn how to deliver the care they need in the prescribed way. I seek trusted providers to share the care: special needs pet sitters I know are up to treating them with respect and the care they need as they age, massage therapists to ease my doggy’s pain, and even animal communicators when I can’t figure out what my kitty is trying so hard to tell me! 

    When they are nearing the Rainbow Bridge, I call on the lessons learned by all the animals and the families I have been honored to serve. They have taught me about living to the last breath, the complexities of dying, the way to achieve peace, and how that journey can eventually transform a life forever. I am deeply grateful to be able to share those lessons with you through the AHELP Project.

    This is my story…

    My journey into animal hospice became intensely personal when my beloved Boxer, Brodie, faced the end of his life. Under the guidance of my human hospice nurse mother Carol Soukup, RN, I chose to embrace hospice principles, allowing Brodie a peaceful passing at home and surrounded by love. This experience was a revelation as I realized that I had been providing hospice care without even knowing it. Sharing stories of Brodie’s life and gazing at him lying in state peacefully, we asked ourselves the next morning, “Where are all the animal hospice people?” 

    After over six years of nursing Brodie to treat his congenital heart disease, our sweet boy was at rest at the age of 10. My husband, mother, and 4-year-old were relieved that we were at peace, too. This profound experience showed me there could be a different way to love and live with these creatures who are never with us here long enough.
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    I started networking until I found my people, mentored with veterinarians, and immersed myself in the nascent animal hospice and palliative care movement. After a master's degree and a career in professional healthcare counseling, I recognized I could utilize the tools in my toolbox to educate and support caregivers, working alongside veterinary medical teams through an interdisciplinary approach. I began my first caregiver support business, "Partners to the Bridge," soon after, our group co-founded the AHELP Project to serve more families through a nonprofit model.

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    Me, Lucky, and his Dad in a Comprehensive Caregiver Support Home Visit (2018)

     

    I accepted leadership roles within the groundbreaking International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care, including serving as their President in 2019. My conference presentations advocated the importance of interdisciplinary teamwork and showcased how the nonprofit model can effectively support more families through their pets' end-of-life journeys. 

     

    Me & IAAHPC Founder Dr. Amir Shanan at their 20th Annual Conference (2019)

     

     

    At the beginning of the pandemic, I saw an opportunity for online animal hospice education to address the scarcity of readily accessible veterinary services. I co-founded Animal Hospice Group with three thought leaders, Gail Pope of BrightHaven, Kathryn Marocchino, PhD, and Amir Shanan, DVM, to build animal hospice education for people of all backgrounds, culminating in the Certified Animal Hospice Practitioner AHG headset logo(CAHP). I was instrumental in developing their Animal Hospice Helpline to support caregivers and professionals. After recognizing the need to produce the next generation of leaders in our field, I have been teaching and mentoring allied practitioners who help people and their pets for over four years.

    At the time of this writing, we are approaching AHELP's 15th year. I return to our grassroots mission to realize my life's vision: for every animal lover to have ready access to animal hospice, understand their options, and find the path to achieve the goals they visualize for their pet and their family. After years of refinement in response to caregivers' needs, I proudly offer “Partners to the Bridge" Animal Hospice Coaching for Pet Parents in greater Seattle, which is adaptable online to anyone anywhere in the United States. 

    I share my life with my spouse of 27 years, my 18-year-old, and two Boston Terriers. Sailing on the Puget Sound is our favorite family pastime, and I am passionate about riding horses. I volunteer with my Boston Terrier, Bunny, as an Animal Assisted Therapy team at Seattle Children's Hospital. 

    I look forward to meeting you very soon. 

    Professional Experience and Education:

    Founder, AHELP Project

    Co-Founder, Animal Hospice Group

    Co-author, Certified Animal Hospice Practitioner Certification (Animal Hospice Group)

    President, International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care

    Director, Cancer Genetics Department (Mercy San Juan Medical Center, Carmichael CA)

    Pediatric Genetic Counselor (Kaiser Permanente, Sacramento CA)

    Prenatal Genetic Counselor (Prenatal Diagnosis of Northern California, Sacramento CA)

    Masters of Science, Human Genetics and Counseling Psychology (Medical College of Virginia/Virginia Commonwealth University)

    Presentations:

    "Build your Animal Hospice Team" at the 1st Annual Conference of the International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care (Ft Worth TX, 2011)

    "The Interdisciplinary Teamwork Model: How's that working for you?" at the 8th Annual Conference of the International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care (Seattle, 2017)

    "Employing the Nonprofit Model for Delivery of Animal Hospice and Palliative Care Services" at the 10th Annual Conference of the International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care (Chicago, 2019)

    "It takes a village to bring a being into this world, and human hospice has shown the same is true on the other end of life.

    Supporting the family through the journey from their beloved animal companion's diagnosis or decline to their death takes a TEAM."

    -Michelle Nichols

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    Me and my family 

     Bellevue, Washington (2023)

     

     


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  • "Help for Animal Hospice Caregivers" Donate Now!

    $5,983.00 raised
    GOAL: $6,000.00
    Your generous donation enables AHELP Project to support those who need our help the most. Every dollar goes directly into our mission, supporting animal caregivers and their families while their beloved animals are ill and will make life’s last transition. 
     
    NEW projects we're rolling out in 2019-2020:
     

    More families will receive individualized animal hospice services through "HELP for Animal Hospice Caregivers Fund" that was seeded by our successful "Season for Caring" campaign in December-January every year.

    Outreach to veterinary clinics will bring animal hospice education and support to practices in the Greater Seattle and Eastside region animal hospice. The work of our four-person Outreach Team will ultimately enable us to reach more families with AHELP Caregiver Support. 

    Other 2019-2020 goals that we will continue: 

    • We will serve more families with our Comprehensive Care Home Visits, phone consults, and referrals from our Professional Network. 
    • We will offer our monthly Support Circle, and present regularly scheduled educational sessions on end-of-life caregiving. We will continue to produce our popular Creative Healing Circles to engage head, heart, and hands while remembering an animal friend. 
    • We will restart our "Caregivers Tips and Tails" blog. We will partner with guest bloggers to bring useful information and on end-of-life caregiving. In response to public request and with permissions, we'll also tell adapted "Tails" based on our experience through our Animal Caregiver Support Program. 
    • Collaborate with writers to refine our "Quality of Life in your Senior and Ill Animal Friend," our step-by-step guide
    • Promote our Professional Network Members, trusted providers whose services contribute to comfort in illness and the end of life.

     

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  • Thank you for your contribution on the important topic of dedicated care for our animal family members across the lifespan, Patty Ann.

    Read more from Patty Ann Sparano on her blog, www.anothercookieplease.com.

    Would you like to share your experiences in caregiving for our animal friends? Email me or post here about being a guest blogger!

  • Thank you for reading our blog! We’d love to hear your comments and have you participate as a valued AHELP community member on our blog. What is your experience and musings on living with and loving animal friends with chronic illness, special needs, and in end-of-life?
    Please contact me for more information on how to get involved.

  • Contact AHELP

    In order to make the most of our first 30-minute phone call, please use the Family Information Form below. We can be of more assistance with your earlier contact. Thank you very much and we will contact you shortly.

    For more information, please review our Hospice FAQs. If you are unable to use the form below, please contact Michelle Nichols directly at:

      [email protected]

    NOTE: All information remains private and confidential.

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  • Sign up as an AHELPer

    Thank you for your interest in becoming an AHELPer! Our organization, support groups and events are located in King County/Seattle Area, WA. We welcome AHELPers from other areas that are able to help remotely. 
     
    After completing this short form, you can expect:  
     
    1. You will be emailed a link to our AHELPer Questionnaire that takes just 5-10 minutes to complete.
    2. You will be contacted by Michelle to set up a time to meet over coffee/tea, Skype, or phone.
    3. We will find you an AHELPer position that fits your preferred gift of involvement, matching your time and your interests. 
    4. Through individual training and mentorship, you will be fully prepared to join our AHELPer Team.
     
    Our goal is for you to feel rewarded, appreciated, and a highly valued member of our AHELP Community. 
     
    If you prefer to take this process stepwise, feel free to complete the form and stop there. You will be contacted by Michelle for more follow up. Thank you for your interest in becoming an AHELPer volunteer!
     
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  • Animal Caregiver Support Program

    Why Caregiver Support Matters

    You’ve heard it before: “Please secure your oxygen mask first, then assist your loved one.” We all know that we can't take good care of our loved one if we don't take care of ourselves - but how can you when your focus is 100% on your pet? "Why do I need caregiver support?" We hear it often! Your animal friend cannot do it without you attending to their needs, however, you can only provide the best care for your pet if you also attend to YOUR needs.

    That's why we focus on caregiver support; animal caregivers need support just like those caring for ill and aging human patients. Together, we will empower you to achieve a good quality of life for your pet until the end, you know you've forged your path of least regrets and healing comes with more ease. 

    Scroll down to learn how caregiver support helps address these pet parents' common concerns... 

     

    Comprehensive Hospice Comfort Care Team
    "People want the same care for their animal family members as benefitted their human loved ones. Now, the practice of animal hospice and palliative care allows them to do so."

    Dr. Amir Shanan, DVM, CHPV
    Founder, International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care 
    Co-founder, Animal Hospice Group
    Certified Hospice and Palliative Care Veterinarian

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    Do any of these concerns sound familiar to you? 

    “I just want my furry friend to be comfortable and don’t know where to turn.”

    We know the value in seeking guidance and companionship while considering options for comfort care versus more aggressive treatments to cure their illness. You may seek more support than your veterinarian alone can provide. Our framework ensures you feel seen, heard, and understood. We help you explore the best care options for your pet based on your values and goals, and build an end-of-life plan you can confidently share with your veterinary team.

    “I want to know when it’s time for euthanasia.”

    Deciding when to euthanize a beloved pet is hard. Even with your vet’s advice, uncertainty can remain. There isn’t a perfect moment—only the best decision made with love. We’ll help you assess your pet’s quality of life, talk with your vet, and ensure your pet doesn’t suffer. Our goal is to support you in making a compassionate decision you can find peace with.

    "My veterinarian offered me unsettling options: surgery, another round of tests, or ‘call-me-when-you-want-a-euthanasia.’"

    It breaks your heart to imagine life without your furry friend, but the same clinical tests yet again don’t seem to change anything, and surgery seems unfair to her. Our guidance and decision-making fundamentals will give you what you need to make informed choices and feel in control again. 

    “I can’t get over how guilty I feel about my last pet’s passing. I don’t know how I could do that again.”

    You second-guessed yourself last time, hoping for a recovery that never came, and by the time you called on your veterinarian, you felt sure she was suffering. Bottling up your pain over this weakens you and makes you question your faith in yourself. Our steps will help you explore and heal from past emotions, giving you a more confident outlook for the future.

    “I’m running out of energy to continue this level of pet care, yet she still really needs me.”

    Burnout is a real risk for dedicated solo animal caregivers and is more common than you think. You might feel exhausted, stuck, or even ashamed to admit you are overwhelmed. Trust in AHELP to help you find heart-centered and compassionate solutions to continue caring for your beloved pet without sacrificing your well-being and with self-care in mind.

    “I was on an emotional rollercoaster, and I’ll never forgive myself for letting her go too soon.”

    You feel terribly that you might have stopped short of understanding your pet’s end-of-life options, yet forgiving yourself seems impossible. You want to look back this time, knowing you did all you could. Our guidance and support in animal hospice and palliative care can help you build a plan you can trust in, look back on your journey without regrets, and lead you smoothly to healing. 

    "We have a veterinarian I trust, but I wonder if they are ALL we need right now."

    You have heard about other approaches to comfort and caring, and feel it's time to explore if they are the right fit for your needs at this crucial time. We know that your pet needs a veterinary team you can trust so good for you - and for your pet - if you already do.  Feel free to ask about our network of providers who treat body and mind more "whole-istically." Your furry friend's end of life experience often benefits when adding a hospice-aligned practitioner or a veterinarian to your team.

    “The thought of another expense like pet hospice care will overwhelm my finances.”

    Another trip to the vet clinic, another $1,000 spent. Your heart says to do everything, but that nagging voice persists. Did you know that pet hospice care is typically more affordable than traditional veterinary services? We understand the financial burden and can help you find cost-effective alternatives for your pet, while also supporting yourself and your loved ones. Also, discontinuing aggressive treatments and opting for pet hospice comfort care can often give you more precious time together.

    At AHELP, We Understand the Challenges of Animal Caregiving.

    We get you! We know that providing hospice care for your furry friend can be deeply rewarding and create lasting memories, but it can also be challenging. 

    Our mission is to provide companionship, expert guidance, affordable solutions, and compassionate support to ensure you and your pet navigate these harrowing times with peace and confidence.

    Comfort. Choices. Empowerment.

    Animal Hospice, End-of-Life, and Palliative Care Project